Friday, March 24, 2017

所以人生的成就就只能靠你赚多少来衡量?

钱或社会阶级,或许是最直接,最表面的衡量方式; 但我一直再问我自己,还有没有其他的方法来判断我现在的成功程度?
我发现,其实怎么样衡量,再怎么判断都是其次,关键在于,当你以为你已肯定了自己,走出社会时又被外在的一切给影响,否定了之前的肯定。
曾经一位Head hunter对我说过:
"以你现在这个年龄,是时候找个经理级的职位了"
曾经一位同事也这么说过:
"你还不快点找个五位数的收入就输给别人了"
你又是否有这样的经验,家人亲戚会说:
"你到现在还没有自己的房子哦?你也不小了,再不买就迟了!"
如果你耳根轻,可能就会急着找份经理级的职位,然后要求了五位数的收入,再然后买了间房子。你爽了一下,成就感大增,然后呢?工作上的压力犹如五位数般大,再加上房贷,车债,信用卡债,通通如海啸般冲着过来,而且是来了又来!这时的你仿佛上了贼船,下不到站也看不到岸。这还不是最糟,如果你很热爱这份工作,但如果不是呢?

"你现在成功了嘛!",至少别人看到的你是这样的,但你快乐吗?如果是,恭喜你,这一切都是值得的。如果你在埋怨着,无可否认你已陷入别人设给你的深渊,也足以证明你不是心甘情愿的。

"越是追着金钱跑,越被金钱绑着脚"。

总得来说,你是为了别人而追求,还是为了你自己?你是为了别人所向往的成功而追求,还是为了你自己。很多问题我还找不到答案,很多时候我都很迷茫,但有一点我却很肯定:

你成功了,别人顶多给你的是鼓掌。但这过程甚至是结果,倘或是苦是酸,是高是低,都只是,也只能,你一个人去承担,一个人体会。

Thursday, March 16, 2017

古来toll这边

在杨邦尼的年代,他见证了橡胶园被油粽园给取代。在我的时代,我见证了油棕园被房屋,工业园给取代。
时代变迁,新的事物推成出新。我和他的年代不同,但却有个共同点,就是"失去"。
是啊,就是那段后人看不到的失去。

Wednesday, August 31, 2011

你和我的时光 You and I

Two divas, two different backgrounds, two different vocals, but talking the same story...the story of you and I.

Lady Gaga- You and I



Amei 张惠妹-你和我的时光



Writing a story about myself is not an easy task, i hope i can finish it in a pretty way...god bless me 天公包庇! 包庇!

Mr. Ring

Sunday, August 28, 2011

Tight my heart with BELT

I don't have much belt in my wardrobe, it fact, just little as five fingers count. Actually i don't like to wear belt during school times, i felt it is inconvenient in gent and little extra for the outfit. I started to feel the importance of belt when i need to attend job interview, which need to give a professional impression to the interviewers. From that time onward, my belt start to have 1, 2, 3...and now, i need a brown color one in order to fit my new jean urgently. Do you fall in love with belt? or you still feel it is an extra for the overall outfit like my previous thought? Is nice to have at least one in the wardrobe, sometimes is not only for styling, but for safety because you never know when you will lose weight in the future.

Have a nice day, and Selamat Hari Raya to all the Muslim friends!

Mr. Ring


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