曾经有一名亲戚,因为感情问题而吊颈自杀。话说这名亲戚发送多达五百多封的信息给他的女友,但都一一没有恢复,也许因为这样导致过渡犹豫而选择自杀。当妈妈和姑姑们都在责怪那名狠心的女友时,我突然有种想替她辩驳的念头。
我们常常都会犯同样的错,如果身边的朋友分手时,我们总会毫无保留的站在他那一边,安慰他,甚至和他一起数落他或者她的朋友。直到自己亲身体会过所谓的“爱情“过后,才知道分手这条路病不好走,因为要当好人或者是坏人都不容易。
就拿我亲戚的例子为题好了。如果他女友当初回复他的信息,其实只是害了他。因为藕断撕连只会让他越陷越深,到时如果要收身可难上加难了。如果不回他的信息,他就会过渡伤心而犹豫,最后因为想不开而自杀,到时有得背负人家的职责,背负着一身的内疚。
所以,如果那女友是你的话,你会选择怎样做呢?
分手,要分得干净利落担又不会带来任何伤痛,可不是一件简单的事啊。。。
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